“Well, Chaplain, how many has this been for you? Too many, I’m sure.”
“Yes," I replied. "One is too many but this one is really no fun at all.” This would be my fourth ceremony in less than two months.
We were talking about the memorial ceremony I was asked to perform to honor a Colonel whose death is still under investigation. The Army said he died from "non-combat-related" injuries. That is a category that includes accident, illness, natural disaster and suicide.
He was found alone in his room with a single gunshot wound to the head. Some of the officers that I work with asked if the suicide rate is high. “It sure seems high. Didn’t we have one last week?”
I double checked the figures.
The military is pretty quiet about suicides, especially during war. These are figures that are not announced with fanfare or bravado. But as I look over the figures, I was actually surprised about how low the numbers are. The 18-25 year age group is historically one of the cohorts with the highest suicide rates in our society. We have over 100K of that age group here in country in some of the most demanding situations imaginable. In the three years of combat in this theater, there have been over half a million military members through the war zone. Yet the huge majority of our people are managing. There are many specialists here to support the troops. Mental hygienists, Psychiatrists, Combat Support Teams, Chaplains, even me all play a part in helping keep our military as mentally balanced as possible in an insane environment.
The ceremony for our most recent casualty went extremely well. There are many military traditions involved: playing of taps, 21 gun salute, the upended rifle with helmet, boots, dog tags…
This was unique with the members of the Iraqi military government, Iraqi generals, and coalition forces attending. The Senior Enlisted in charge did a superb job. Since he was Navy, though, he did not know what the “Final Roll Call” entailed. I explained:
“This is a recollection of early formations in the Army. The roll would be called to ensure that all were present and accounted for. Any missing person must be accounted for by the leader, i.e. “sick call, Sergeant” or “in jail, Sergeant” or whatever the reason may be. By the time that the name of the missing person is called three times with no response and no excuse offered, the person was written down as “missing” or "unaccounted for."
This time it was a bit different to have a roll call that involved senior officers, Majors, Lieutenant Colonels, and Colonels. The Master Chief went through an abbreviated roll and called out five or six officers who each replied, "Here Master Chief." Then he called the name of the deceased once, followed by silence. Then again he called the name with rank and that was followed by silence. Then the third time, full name and rank was called loudly followed by silence. After a pause, the 21 gun salute, the playing of taps, and the benediction.
A proper and fitting tribute to a man who had spent over half his life in the military and served honorably. We leave the ceremony somberly and remember that war can exact a very high toll.